Congratulations on taking this first step! Committing to this session could be the most powerful thing you've done for yourself in a long while, may Allah place barakah in this for you.
I'm looking forward to giving you results in our time together insha'Allah, so I can be as effective as possible, I need to know a little more about you. So grab a cup of tea and take the time to fill in this worksheet.
Insha'Allah complete it as well as you can but please don't overthink things, it's likely to start you thinking and you may feel like writing a lot but a sentence or two is sufficient. If a question is not relevant you can just type n/a and move to the next one.
By the way I'm the only one who sees your answer.
What are you struggling with?
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What would it be like if you didn't have the struggle mentioned above?
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What solutions have you tried so far?
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Tell me about your energies and passions:
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Tell me about your emotions:
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Tell be about your pleasure:
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Tell me how you release stress:
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How do you do with responsibility:
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Tell me about control in your life:
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How might you sabotage your mentoring progress and our professional relationship?
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How will you know how effective our mentoring has been?
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Do you have a mentoring preference:
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Do you have a particular learning style:
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Do you understand that I support YOU, not just your goals?
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What are your values – the things in life that are really important to you?
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What business/career opportunities you are currently not making the most/anything of?
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Are there any personal desires you are currently not pursuing?
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Do you have any poor relationships?
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What is the biggest challenge you have in your life right now?
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What is your most urgent problem?
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And finally ... what made you decide to take the step forward and reach out to me today?
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Jazakallahu khayra for taking the time to prepare for our session. Speak soon, insha'Allah.